So there’s a show on E TV with Khloe Kardashian called “Revenge Body.” I just heard about it today. I want to get some input here. I know a lot of people want to make dramatic changes to prove something to an ex, like “look what you’re missing” type of motivation.
I am playing devil’s advocate here. I set some personal weight loss/transformation goals that were/are JUST FOR ME. No revenge no external motivation at all. I wanted to transform for myself so that I can be happy with ME and feel comfortable in my own skin.
I’m interested to see what you guys think – is one type of motivation better than another? Is it more productive to get in shape and make yourself better/healthier as revenge for someone dumping you, or is it more positive and likely to have lasting results if you do it for YOURSELF?
I advocate for doing things for yourself. The opinions of others are nowhere near as important as how you feel about YOU. I’ve been living this for many, many months now, but I didn’t really have a ‘revenge’ reason per se. I continue to work because I’m doing this for me, not for anyone else. However, does revenge motivation work long term? Ready…..GO!
No right or wrong answer here- just want some feedback. I’m sure I was dumped eons ago because I got fat, but it took me decades to do something about it – but that’s not a bad thing in my eyes. I am working so incredibly hard to transform myself inside and out SIMPLY FOR ME. Let me know what you think – let’s talk this out my lovelies 🙂